Do you want to GROW in your parenting skills?
Your Self-help journey to better parenting starts here.
This page is packed with valuable tools for parents who prefer a do-it-yourself approach.
However, if you’d rather journey with a trained facilitator, click here.
1️⃣ Start Here
Journey through
The Parenting Garden
(Videos by Hettie Brittz.)
You can trust our 16 year track record by diving straight into our most comprehensive video-course, The Parenting Garden, recorded by Hettie Brittz in 2021.
The course content is carefully organized into three age groups: Babies/Toddlers, Primary Schoolers, and Teenagers. Gain access with monthly subscriptions.
*Please note that this is a self-help resource and does not include live sessions with a facilitator.
2️⃣ Optional: Deepen Your Understanding
Although The Parenting Garden is designed to be thorough and complete, you may find that you’d like to explore certain topics in more detail. Fortunately, our Focused Learning Resources offer three deep-dive categories, allowing you to refine specific aspects of your parenting journey—but only if you need them.
Deep-dive category: Temperament
Explore Tall Trees.
Our sister company, Tall Trees Training, undertook additional research and developed tested profiles for children and teenagers. These online questionnaires help determine a person’s unique tree type combination. Profiles for children and teens are available via this website.
Once you have determined the tree type of you child, you might want to consider these practical tools:
Deep-dive category: Ditch Unhealthy HABITS
Once you understand the principles of Compassionate Discipline (including the 5 Rules of Discipline and the 8 Types of Misbehaviour, as covered in The Parenting Garden course), we encourage you to challenge yourself by ditching unhealthy habits. Furthermore, you can discover the Evergreen way of handling common misbehaviour scenarios through these valuable resources.
Manipulation destroys relationships!
Take the FREE Manipulation Quiz to determine if there are manipulators in your home. Vind die Afrikaanse weergawe hier: GRATIS Manipulasie Vasvra.
Bribery gets you nowhere!
Rethink some strategies
Deep-dive category: Spend some time at the well
Deep-dive category: Protecting our Children
3️⃣ Apply What You’ve Learned: Practical Tools
Discipline tools to download
Understanding the principles is just the beginning—putting them into practice is where transformation happens! Our Evergreen Toolbox provide downloadable and interactive resources to help you apply what you’ve learned and make lasting changes in your home.
Reinforcement tools
Celebrate the harvest and encourage growth with these reinforcement tools.
Have a question? Send a message to Lydia & Nanette, two experienced Evergreen Facilitators. We are on stand-by.
Emotional Intelligence tools
Tools to establish Healthy Habits
Tools to establish House rules and consequences
Every Evergreen family proudly display these on our fridges 🙂
Tools for Educators
4️⃣ Additional Topics
With over 20 years of experience working with children and parents, Hettie brings valuable insights and expert guidance. The website features a library of recordings on various topics.
Topics relevant in the Baby phase:
Have a question? Send a message to Lydia & Nanette, two experienced Evergreen Facilitators. We are on stand-by.
Topics relevant in the Teen phase:
We consider Parenting Garden as our best option for parents of teens. Listed below are content to use as an appetizer or add-on.
Building Resilience and Grit
Children’s Emotional Well-being
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